Finding a Friend – or Willing Victims -IWSG

September 2, 2015August 28, 20155 Comments

It’s that time again. (Actually I am a little late) A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group.

Finding a friend or willing victims. It sounds morbid, and it’s not. I promise. Well not too morbid. Anyone else hear about these networks called street teams? They help promote a specific author and in return you get free books and prizes. Sometimes. Other street teams are more of a social circle. Some are closed to external jabber. Others are open to helping anyone who is willing to help the administrator. I think I am somewhere in between. I don’t want someone joining my group and getting nothing out of it. The issue is that when you only have a couple of people, the group can’t really be just about me anyway, and not seem very self serving. For the time being I am approaching a “street team” more like a way to meet other authors and book lovers. This is all in hopes of developing a network that will eventually love to promote me.

So now. How do I get members? Good question. Lots of authors gain users through giveaways. My issues is, do these pan out? I haven’t see it. I don’t want people entering who have no intention of being active. I mean commenting, laughing, and maybe sharing promotional information. I want people who want to be involved, even just once in a blue moon.

I am learning so much about networking from bigger name authors, but I don’t have the name or the networks to succeed as quickly. Yes. I said as quickly. I think we all eventually succeed. The glass is always half full.

Tips or pointers if you have a successful network? Otherwise, are you interested in joining my little group?

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Purpose: To share and encourage. Writers can express doubts and concerns without fear of appearing foolish or weak. Those who have been through the fire can offer assistance and guidance. It’s a safe haven for insecure writers of all kinds!

Posting: The first Wednesday of every month is officially Insecure Writer’s Support Group day. Post your thoughts on your own blog. Talk about your doubts and the fears you have conquered. Discuss your struggles and triumphs. Offer a word of encouragement for others who are struggling. Visit others in the group and connect with your fellow writer – aim for a dozen new people each time.

Peak My Interest – IWSG Post

July 1, 2015July 1, 20152 Comments

It’s that time again. A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group.

How do you peak the interest of a new reader? Word of mouth is awesome. Really, really awesome, but you can’t always reach everyone this way. In fact, when you are a new author, sometimes people want a sneak peek. So how do you feel about teasers? Do you like quote from the book, lines from the book, one line summaries? I’ve been experimenting with teasers and would love to know what works for you.

I feel like these small bits of advertisement are my only key way to keep sales generating after something has been released for awhile.

So as a reader what do you prefer?

As an author, what has worked for you?

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http://charitywrites.blogspot.com/ Charity Bradford

http://salarsenbooks.com/ S.A. Larsen

http://www.ajlauer.net/ AJ

http://tamaranarayan.com/ Tamara Narayan

http://eclecticali.wordpress.com/ Allison Gammons

http://tanyamiranda.com/ Tanya Miranda

What To Write Next -IWSG

June 3, 2015June 4, 2015Leave a comment

It’s that time again. (Actually I am a little late) A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group.

I had the best idea for a post – no I really did. I figured if I wrote the post asap I wouldn’t forget. That was the plan, anyway. Than life happened and I forgot. Now I can’t remember what I thought was the next awesome idea!

Isn’t that how writing goes? You make the commitment to write. You sit down and BAM! Nothing. Or what about the fact you have too many ideas. So which do you write next? Is there one that might get you an agent, or maybe one that will get picked up as the next best seller?

Do you find yourself second guessing what was the best next choice? Or maybe you know what is the right choice, but your heart is calling for something else. What then?

I don’t have any answers. I simply know that I want to write something else. A story that isn’t in my current genre published and I worry it won’t be publishable because of market trends. Or perhaps the current fans I might have wouldn’t like it. MY Halloween story, which was paranormal and not typical to my writing, didn’t get much notice. Maybe it was because the story was themed for Halloween? I can’t say.

What about you? Do you know what the market trends are and do you write to them? Do you write whatever you want and have multiple WIPs? Or do you find yourself frustrated?

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The Failure Bug -IWSG

April 1, 2015March 29, 20151 Comment

It’s that time again. A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group.

Getting past the fear and failure bug. That is my issue. I am not overly confident. I don’t assume anyone likes me. I defiantly take criticism to heart. I am my own worst enemy!

Lately I have had a whole lot of new. New jobs, new clients, new books, etc. I hate the idea that nothing is guaranteed. There is no promise that everyone, or well anyone, will like what I have said or do. It’s sad that I let the fear of failure get to me. The good news is that I push through it these days. I still have that awful gnawing in the pit of my stomach, but I’ve realized that what is the worst to happen? I fail and move on.

That being said, it is one of the hardest things I have to battle. I have to push and force myself to just do it without letting the fear make me fail before I even tried.

So everyone – PUSH ON! Don’t let yourself not try. I wouldn’t have 3 anthologies under my belt and the ability to obtain work from home if I’d quit.

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The Color Green -IWSG

February 4, 2015February 6, 20151 Comment

It’s that time again. (Actually I am a little late) A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group.

The color green as in “you are green with envy” isn’t a good color for most. Don’t get me wrong, green and red are great for Christmas. Green makes grass look healthy. But jealousy isn’t a good look on anyone.

I try as I might to fight off the green monster of envy. I try not to be jealous that someone is successfully selling their books, or has a lot of reviews. I try not to be angry because a friend of my promotes someone’s business or compliments someone’s hobby and never mine.

I think the problem for me is that the jealousy is laced with hurt. Why wasn’t I good enough? Are we not friends? Did I not do enough for you? So I step back. I work hard to make my friends and family know they are all important. I try to review all the authors out there and do so kindly. I try and promote authors and friends equally (well except during a release week-special treatment is deserved for that author.) I do what I can and in the end if I am not noticed or not important enough to someone, than I suppose I step back and remember that I am not helping or being kind for anything in return. I do so, because I don’t want anyone to feel like they aren’t awesome or aren’t special. It’s just that sometimes that is easier said than done.

So I am not posting this because I want something in return. I am posting this so that people know. If I do something for you it’s because I care. I want you to know one person out there thinks you were worth the time to review or worth the happy birthday shout out. If you have hundreds of followers, two thumbs up. If you have one follower? Well I am your biggest fan. Just don’t forget to share the love with others. I guess they call it pay it forward. Share the happy feeling I gave you with someone else who needs a happy feeling too. It doesn’t cost anything to make someone smile.

So how many of you fight jealousy? I hope I’m not alone. I think everyone envies someone, even the New York Times best seller sees something they have yet to be or achieve. Human nature is complex, don’t you think?

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Support Networks/Platform Building -IWSG

January 7, 20152 Comments

It’s that time again. A post for the Insecure Writers Support Group. How fitting that I am doing a post on support systems. I’ve sold a few books, mostly to key people in my family. The surprise to me is that I have heard a few of my college sorority sisters have bought at least one of my book too. I hope they liked it and are spreading the word.

To write books and become published though, you need a bigger support system them family. Anyone else not trust your nearest and dearest when they say you’re the next big thing? Most writers don’t have a high profile author or public figure in the family to make your name a household icon. So where do you go for support to get the knowledge of business, get your book info out past your tiny support circle, maybe even find an agent, and lastly build an audience, a platform?

The internet.

Today’s author has to master the internet, unless you are a lucky member of the big publishers. Even then though, they don’t always market you. So here is where I started.

1. Find blogs of indie authors. They are hungry to share knowledge as much as they are to sell a book or two. Obviously, if they aren’t that author, they might be fun to follow still. Interact with these authors. They might tell you about a writing group, or where they started out. Writing groups that could be awesome to shift through and fine a few writing pales like http://www.scribophile.com.

2. Blog. I don’t mean that you have to share the best knowledge of stuff you don’t know or even to blog every day. I mean start a blog about whatever you do know. Ask questions and expect no answers. This is a slow process. People will find you and you will form some new friendships with people who have similar interests.

3. FACEBOOK or now Tsu, even Twitter. Interact, like pages, and follow those authors that give advice. You can actually bond with other people this way.

4. Local writing groups, conferences, and library events. Not always in that order. I rarely think a conference is worth the money for my writing career. I do however think it can be wonderful to meet other authors. Other authors can get you a submission to their agents.

5. Well – I am not sure what 5 really is yet. Once you are published a few more avenues open up. That isn’t what this post is about though.

For everyone out there, published or not. Go fourth and network. Make friends. Join blog hops. Do you have suggestions to add to this list for the unknown writer or new author?

For those looking for my giveaway, click here.

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Enough Hours in the Day -IWSG

December 3, 2014December 3, 20142 Comments

Anyone else feel like there aren’t enough hours in the day? Like maybe you are stretching yourself too thin? Well let me just say, if you don’t can you please share your secret?

I’m pulled between so many things. Sometimes it’s necessity. Sometimes, it’s want. Writing falls in that want and sometimes the necessity category. It’s my sanity. The necessity category keeps changing.

I’m trying to find my way. Partially that means job finding. I am trying to start a small line of products for author promotion. I have a store on etsy that will soon house my handmade items. I am also selling bows, because my three year old has an obsession. Next to that I have my webdesign. That is more of a challenge. I still have to look for full time employment, raise my kids, and oh right, I am writing resumes for an online company. I think I am supposed to clean somewhere in there too. Ha, that’s a joke. I think I attempting to lose weight, or at least get more healthy. Let’s see if It Works, really works-so far so good. There’s the challenge to help promote other authors, follow blogs and posts too. So when do you write?

That’s the hard part. Some days I write a lot (okay 1000 words isn’t a lot.) Some days I don’t do anything except try and market. Marketing is a time suck. I think you saw my post on trying to get reviews? That’s a pain too. Some days I feel overwhelmed. Those are the days that i do only the basics. Kids, food, and write. My sanity depends on living someone’s life, that I make up.

So how do you make things work? Life doesn’t stop, unless you are fortunate enough to be a full time author-granted life still doesn’t stop.

In case you didn’t know I have a free read out there too. Sometimes helping out an author doesn’t have to cost a thing.

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Visit other bloggers in the Insecure Writers Support Group ! (A blog hop that posts the first Wednesday of every month, founded by Head Ninja Captain Alex J. Cavanaugh.) Thanks to his co-hosts this month too! Heather Gardner, T. Drecker from Kidbits, Eva E. Solar at Lilicasplace, and Patsy Collins!

Sharing Your Opinion -IWSG

November 5, 2014November 7, 20146 Comments

I’ve been pulling out my hair for a year now. What is the best way to get a review? I have become better and better about leaving them myself, because I now realize just how hard it is to get them. I scratch my head and wonder, why is it that so many people are ready to give their opinions, yet book reviews are scarce?

My policy, although I am not a book reviewer and blogger, is for my own personal benefit. I will only review books that have a 4 and 5 star rating in my mind. I don’t want to destroy someone’s online presence just because their book didn’t work for me. If I truly feel like a book is a three star, but I have positive things to say, then I might leave a review. I don’t normally care about grammar either. Did the book capture me or not?

I suppose my point is, leaving a review is the easiest and cheapest way to thank an author for what they do. It will help other customers in their search too. What makes you leave a review and what holds you back?

Lets get out there and show some love to indie and small published authors. Even some of the big guys could use the help.

Incase you didn’t know I have a free read out there too. Sometimes helping out an author doesn’t have to cost a thing.

For those looking for my giveaway, click here.

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Publishing Credits – Flipping the coin

October 20, 2014October 19, 20141 Comment

Do publishing credits actual help or do they hurt you? I had the opportunity to talk with an agent at a small conference recently. She didn’t represent what I wrote, but I was able to ask some great basic questions on the industry. Some days I say, flip a coin to decide what to do next.

Do you want an agent someday? If you answered yes, read on. If you answered no, good luck on your mission.

From the agent’s mouth:

The agent I had the opportunity to “chat up” was very polite. She asked me questions about my writing, to be nice I assume. In the end she told me that if I want to be agented someday, and I do more then short stories at a small publisher, the number of books sold will be scrutinized. They will want to know how big the publisher is. They will want to know the avenues of sale used. Although agents will understand that most small publishers will not be at physical stores, your sales better be good online.

All that being said, she still seemed to be interested to know that I was trying. That I had found someone who appreciates my work. She liked the idea that I was learning the business and building a platform. Did any of those facts change her statement that she would require any sale info on books that I write independently? No. But she had nothing negative to say about getting my feet wet.

That’s from the agents mouth.

From the writers mouth though, I say that going with a small publisher has been nothing short of awesome! I have changed the way I write. I have fewer “issues”. Am I perfect? No. Never will be. The lessons learned though, have been invaluable! I would tell anyone to start small. A few other authors I know have and are now agented or still independent, but doing well.

Long story short. Do you love to write? Then don’t give up and always attempt a few avenues. Just be aware of the risks that come along with each choice. I’ll post on that later.

Here it goes – flipping a coin on what to write next!

Finding the Next Step -IWSG

October 1, 2014October 1, 20146 Comments

Oh for the love! It is Wednesday. And that means it’s time! Time for insecurities!! Well don’t I have a lot.

I may not finish my book that I am pitching this weekend.

I probably won’t sell the books I am bringing to the conference I am volunteering at.

I have no idea what I will do when Unemployment runs out.

What if no one needs a website?

Well hello fear of failure. I was really curious where you were. Right on cue.

There are those days. Lots and lots of them for me lately. I have no idea how to keep up with authors I love. Making sure I promote them. Making sure I read posts. I don’t like letting people down. Right now though, I have a lot to focus on in my life. Job searches are not fun. They suck so much time from your day.

The thing is though, seeing others succeed and find happiness fuels my desire to push aside the evil little bug in my ear telling me I will fail. I still need more hours in a day and a lot of understanding friends.

If I fear failure too much, I indeed will fail. But instead, if I use my fears to improve myself, well- I just might succeed.

How do you handle the fear of failure? How to rise above it?

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